A Writer's Journey

There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.

Maya Angelou

Music expresses that which cannot be said and on which it is impossible to be silent.

Victor Hugo

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Writing Wednesday: The Value of Critique

There are some people that can write without the need for an extra pair of eyes until the very end, right before submission. But even then, there are writers that go through the entire process alone, with only their own knowledge and their own views on the outcome of the manuscript. Others, like me, have those extra pair of eyes (or extra pairs, in my case) that see the process unfold as the manuscript evolves into what would eventually be the final version for submission.

Not to say that one way is wrong and everyone must go that route because with or without critique, it's really the work that speaks for itself and different people just have their own ways to get to that final product.

In my experience, I've tried writing on my own, without the extra eyes and extra input that another person can give. I don't have a degree in writing, English, or literature. The gist of my writing credibility when I first attempted writing a full length manuscript was summed up into a few creative writing classes I had taken and English courses from high school.



For the longest time, I was completely terrified of showing anything I had written to anyone for many reasons that I'm not going to get into here. I don't know at what point things had shifted, but I decided that I was going to need those extra pair of eyes.

I needed help.



I began using my social media experience to reach out to others who were in the same boat. I pored through blogs, and attended online conferences and webinars. Not only did I start gaining knowledge about the industry, but I also began striking up conversations with people who shared the same interests, who had the same ideas and experiences, and who could be someone that could help shape my attempt at a writing career for the better.

I started off with one or two people I had met at WriteOnCon and, eventually, ventured out to blog postings that helped to pair up writers with others of the like for the purpose of exchanging works for critique. It was one of the best moves I had ever made.

Not only did I make new friends, but I found writers who could take a look at what I had written and give me honest, no holds-barred input on what they felt could be improved. This experience with critique partners and beta readers also helped to thicken my skin (okay, I might still be working on this one...LOL *shifty eyes*). Their critique helped to see certain elements that I may have otherwise missed, or provide input that could potentially make the work much better.

Something to keep in mind about critique, however, is that all input is subjective. Every person has their own opinion of what should and shouldn't be. Of what is missing or what is glaringly obvious. The way the information is handled and filtered into the manuscript is all up to how the writer interprets and uses the information given.

I look back on the first draft of the very first manuscript I had written and sort of cringe. *laughs* But, I know that without that first attempt, I wouldn't have something to go back to that I could compare with how much better I've improved since then. Critique helps the writer to grow. It challenges the writer's current skills and help to shed a new light on things that might have otherwise been missed. It helps the writer to grow as a person and to take from it the good.

At least that's what it's done for me.

What are your opinions on critique? Do you think they're necessary for a writer's growth or do you think its influence does more harm than good?

And now for our regularly scheduled pretty...



Monday, August 29, 2011

Music Monday: Nice Guys - nigahiga

I haven't posted in a few...life's just been throwing me a bumload of stuff that I had to deal with. But I thought for today's Music Monday, I'd give everyone a supreme funny that I found on YouTube. Nigahiga was a channel I found via my brother (who's one of the most awesome people on this PLANET, but I may be biased) and the video is basically a parody on nice guys vs douchebags. Featured in the vid are Ryan Higa, Kev Jumba, Chester See, Dtrix, Cathy Nguyen, and Kina Grannis. If you like what you see, subscribe to their channels below.

Ryan Higa - nigahiga
Kev Jumba - kevjumba
Chester See - chestersee
Dtrix (Dominic from SYTYCD) - thedominicshow
Cathy Nguyen - lilcdawg
Kina Grannis - kinagrannis

Nice Guys - nigahiga version



And now for our regularly scheduled pretty...



Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Tunes Tuesday: Katy McAllister - Worth Fighting For + CONTEST WINNERS!

In lieu of Music Monday because I was unable to post, I bring you Tunes Tuesday! Just as musical and full of win! *confetti* But before we get to my song of the week, I wanted to announce the WINNERS from my Writing Wednesday Dialogue and Pimpage Contest! *more confetti*

Winner for the dialogue contest: Lori Lee

Winner for the bonus entries: Samantha Rae

CONGRATULATIONS!
Email me at ThatGirlAni(at)gmail(dot)com to let me know if you would prefer the Amazon or iTunes gift card.

Thanks for all of you who entered and made my contest oh so fun! :D

Now for the music of the week...

Katy McAllister - Worth Fighting For



Lyrics

The sky is turning golden now.
Wish you were with me, now.
My body aches for you.
Feels empty since you left
Is anybody left, that isn’t broken?
Shattered, confused.

It’s not that I don't understand your side
It’s just hard to contemplate why this
Love so deep goes unanswered
I'm going places in this life
And I want you by my side
Do you remember that night

As you tell me goodbye
I see that look in your eyes
I never wanted you to break down
We found real love in this cold world
Isn't that what life's about
We can get away from this town

I know exactly how I hurt you,
There's nothing left but the truth
We can change this life
One step at a time.
I know there's so much more
Isn't that worth fighting for?

Its been so long I'm growing.
We've lost the only one who can fix me,
Now it's me who's breaking down.
I know you see me broken
But there's so much unspoken
Please give us hope.
Because I'll never let you go.

It's not that I'm forgiving myself.
It's just I'm going through hell.
To try and think of words to save me.

It's not so much I am missing you.
It's more like I'm so lost without you.
I'd give anything for you to just take me.

As you tell me goodbye
I see that look in your eyes
I never wanted you to break down
We found real love in this cold world
Isn't that what life's about
We can get away from this town

I know exactly how I hurt you,
There's nothing left but the truth
We can change this life
One step at a time.
I know there's so much more
Isn't that worth fighting for?

Honestly tell when you look at me
And don't remember everything
You're scared and that’s okay
I'll show you there’s a way
For us to truly be something happy

As you tell me goodbye
I see that look in your eyes
I never wanted you to break down
We found real love in this cold world
Isn't that what life's about
We can get away from this town

I know exactly how I hurt you,
There's nothing left but the truth
We can change this life
One step at a time.
I know there's so much more
Isn't that worth fighting for?

And now for our regularly-scheduled pretty...